Sunday, October 29, 2017
Jim Davis - Florida Catholic
Photography: JIM DAVIS | FC
FORT LAUDERDALE | Regina Medina didn’t want to leave Ohio. She'd grown up in a family with 13 siblings, and she knew no one in South Florida.
“I’ll stay only if we find a church and get involved with people with the same morals and beliefs,” she told her husband, Francisco.
In less than a year, they found such a place: Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church. The Medinas and their children plunged into children’s ministries, Eucharistic ministry and church festivals. Medina currently works as the church secretary. And after nearly four decades, she can't imagine going anywhere else.
“The people are so warm and receptive,” Medina said of OLQM, which is planning to celebrate its 60th anniversary at 11 a.m. Nov. 5 with a bilingual Mass celebrated by Archbishop Thomas Wenski. “They welcomed us with open arms. They made us feel at home.”
As one of the first parishes in Broward County — only St. Anthony in Fort Lauderdale and St. Clement in Wilton Manors are older — Queen of Martyrs has raised two generations of Catholics, many of whom have peopled newer parishes as they’ve been founded. The church has also weathered changes in society and demographics, yet retained its open, welcoming atmosphere, say longtime members and alumni.
Among the oldest
OLQM is older even than the archdiocese, which was founded as a diocese in 1958. Starting in 1953 as a mission of St. Anthony Church in eastern Fort Lauderdale, Queen of Martyrs was established by order of Archbishop Joseph P. Hurley of St. Augustine in 1956.
The letter set in motion a transfer of 10 acres by Msgr. John O'Looney, pastor of St. Anthony. At first, the congregants met on adjoining land at Catholic Central High School, later renamed St. Thomas Aquinas.
Within months, Msgr. O'Looney dedicated a church-cafeteria complex, then broke ground for an administration building in 1969. OLQM school opened in 1957. The church began with 1,100 member families, then nearly tripled to some 3,000 families by spring 1959.
Nor were they Sunday-only Christians. Even in its early years, OLQM was the locus of a Ladies' Guild, clubs for men and ushers, a St. Vincent De Paul Society, a home and school association, and groups of Boy and Girl Scouts. Members have also been involved with Respect Life and the Neocatechumenal Way. A lay service group, known as St. Joseph’s Order of Franciscans, has 29 members and meets monthly.
Barbara Piersall, who joined OLQM in 1959, remembers the early times. She became an extraordinary minister of holy Communion minister and a Cub Scout den mother. Her husband, Ike, became an usher.
She remembers small, colorful details. For years, a group of retired women called the Queen Bees made jewelry and candles, selling them every month or two as church fundraisers. And the Knights of Columbus gave Tootsie Rolls for donations; then they donated the proceeds to the mentally challenged, she said.
“It was a small, warm parish, like family," Piersall said. "Everybody knew everybody. Everybody pitched in and helped.”
Jessie Chiccone, a member since 1967, has taught religious education, sung in the choir and served as an extraordinary minister of holy Communion. She's also washed altar cloths, arranged flowers around the chancel and volunteered at the rectory for 10 years. And she's an original member of a weekly home-based rosary group.
"Pretty much any church job, I've done it," Chiccone said.
The Hoyer years
She and other longtime parishioners fondly remember the tenure of Father Michael “Happy” Hoyer, who pastored Queen of Martyrs longer than anyone else. The Hoyer years, from December 1989 through June 2011, saw vigorous growth. And individual members treasure their relationships with the priest.
"I celebrated my 50th wedding anniversary along with Father Hoyer," Chiccone said. "I've had many memorable times, but that was the crown for me."
Father Hoyer, now pastor at St. Gregory Church in Plantation, returned the admiration. He reminisced over grandly presented liturgical celebrations, like Christmas and confirmation, plus community carnivals and the first Spanish Mass at any Broward parish.
"They're used to working with their hands, without resources, to build community," he said of Queen of Martyrs members. "And I didn’t have to cajole — they were willing to do whatever would move the church forward."
The Medina family alone counts three generations of service at Queen of Martyrs. Besides her work as parish secretary, Regina has served as director of religious education. She and husband Francisco have worked as a team couple for Marriage Encounter.
Their son Frank coordinates lectors and works in the church youth program, and all three have helped with Emmaus retreats. Daughter Teresa directs the youth group and serves as sacristan and extraordinary minister of Communion — and chairs the anniversary celebration.
Teresa's children, Priya and Chetan, are altar servers. And Frank's son Anthony, 12, is a lector.
"My parents taught CCD when I was Anthony's age, so it's part of our lives," Frank Medina said. "We were married here, and our kids were baptized here. Now, we teach our kids. Even if they move away, we've planted the seed."
'Where I belong'
It seemed to work with Regina Ann Medina, Frank’s other child. Now that she's done with postgraduate classes at Florida State University, Frank has already scheduled her to serve as a lector. She'll also assist at retreats for students preparing for confirmation.
“Every time I go home, and I'm not at my actual home, I'm there [at church]," Regina Ann said. "I kind of feel like it’s where I belong.”
Meanwhile, the demographics around Queen of Martyrs changed. Now, parishioners include people from Guatemala, Honduras, El Salvador, Argentina, Puerto Rico, Mexico, Spain, Cuba, Jamaica, Haiti, Trinidad, the Philippines, China and India. The church bulletin is printed in English and Spanish.
Also driving diversity was the merger of St. George Parish with OLQM in 2009. Members of St. George immediately began helping at Queen of Martyrs, in religious education and sacred dance.
“They had already been doing sacraments like confirmation with us,” Regina Medina said. “I think it was a gift from God to bring them to us.”
As the Fort Lauderdale area grew, Our Lady Queen of Martyrs shrank. People moved west; new cities were founded; so were new parishes like St. Bernard and All Saints. Piersall herself began attending St. Gregory in Plantation three years ago. And Regina Medina drives to church 25 minutes from her home in Plantation.
Although Queen of Martyrs is down to 600-650 families, the parish remains active under Father Flavio Montes-Colon, who was appointed in July 2016. It offers prayer workshops, religious education, and the continuing work of Respect Life, the lay Franciscans and the St. Vincent De Paul Society.
The Neocats and the John XXIII Society encourage lay devotions. Each December, two Christmas trees remind members to buy gifts for nursing home residents and disadvantaged children. And an annual Family Festival sports a raffle, food booths and games for children.
Through it all, Our Lady Queen of Martyrs has coped as it always has: with prayer, hard work and faith in its patron saint.
"I still believe in the power of prayer," Jessie Chiccone said. "For the priest, for Regina [Medina] and for the others working there."