Our Father and our parents

October 1, 2020

Let us continue with the catecheses on the ‘Our Father’. The first step of every Christian prayer is the entry into a mystery, that of the fatherhood of God. One cannot pray like parrots. Either you enter into the mystery, in the awareness that God is your Father, or you do not pray. If I want to pray to God my Father, I begin with the mystery. To understand to what measure God is father to us, let us consider the figures of our parents, but in some measure we must always ‘refine them’, purify them.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church also says so; it says: “The purification of our hearts has to do with paternal or maternal images, stemming from our personal and cultural history, and influencing our relationship with God” (n. 2779).

None of us has had perfect parents, no one; as we, in turn, will never be perfect parents or pastors. We all have shortcomings, everyone. We always experience our loving relationships according to our limitations and also our egotism; thus they are often tarnished by desires to possess or to manipulate others. For this reason, at times declarations of love are transformed into feelings of anger and hostility. But look, last week these two loved each other so much; today they hate each other to death: We see this every day! This is why we all have, within, bitter roots that are not good, and sometimes they come out and do harm.

For this reason, when we speak of God as ‘father’, as we consider the image of our parents, especially if they loved us, at the same time we must go further. Because God’s love is that of the Father ‘who art in Heaven’, according to the expression that Jesus invites us to use: He is the total love that we can savor only imperfectly in this life. Men and women are eternally begging for love, we are beggars of love, we need love seeking a place where they may finally be loved, but do not find it. How many disappointing friendships and how many disappointing loves there are in our world; many!

Source: Pope Francis’ catecheses on the Lord’s Prayer, given during general audiences between Dec. 5, 2018 and May 22, 2019.

Message from Father Michael W. Davis

St. Gregory Church

This weekend, the Scriptures poignantly identify those who speak out of “both sides of their mouths.” We all know the type! There are politicians who say anything to be elected, and then don’t follow-through on their promises. There are tele-marketers who try to extol the wonders of a product for purchase, and yet when bought and received, the consumer realizes that the product does not match the sales pitch. There are friends and neighbors who say, “let me know if you need anything, or how I can be of help.” And then, when a moment of need arises, they are nowhere to be found. There are those, who sign promissory notes for loans, monetary advances, purchases of goods, or even agree to university or school tuition obligations and yet walk away from responsibilities without shame. There are contractors who promise a client a certain service, repair, or warranty, but do not follow through on the terms of contract. There are also those who, as church-going individuals, go through the weekly routine, perhaps attending Mass, perhaps paying God lip-service on the outside, but interiorly their hearts are far from Gospel virtue and spiritual integration. Jesus, while speaking to the Pharisees and Scribes, addressed their inconsistency in this regard. He called them out! It was a lack of follow-through, the drama of putting on a show of religiosity. They were actually demonstrating socio-religious hypocrisy.

Yes; the parable that Jesus enunciated was meant to get them to think about the authenticity of their lives. There’s hardly anything worse than saying yes, and then not showing up for duty, and skipping responsibilities. How much more true is this than when we say yes to our Lord with our “Amen” in receiving Holy Communion, and then choosing not to be true to him who saves. Consider the son in the parable. He told his father “yes,” but did not go. The son deviously said what he thought his father wanted to hear, but deep inside had no intention of follow-through. The insincerity of such a disposition is nearly palpable. We, ourselves, have often publicly professed our faith. We say we believe.

Yet, the question remains: have we truly welcomed the call to repent? If not, it would be like saying yes to God, and then doing nothing. Surely, this would be evidence of spiritual sloth, one of the Seven Deadly Sins.

Our first reading, from the Prophet Ezekiel, exhorts his hearers to turn away from sin and selfishness, and to do “what is right and just.” Saint Paul, in our second reading today, invites us to truly turn to Christ and “believe in him.” Our Lord, through his parable, calls us to authenticity in our response to the matters of faith; to be people of integrity and sincerity; to stand up and be counted, following through on our obligations before God and humankind. Let your “yes” mean yes and your “no” mean no. But, be sincere, authentic, men and women of Gospel conviction for the sake of Christ’s Kingdom.

Let us resolve to honor God by the authenticity of our lives. Let us not be distracted by the drama and hypocrisy that so characterizes our broken world, by the side shows, the vitriol, and the propaganda to abandon the ways of God. We are a people called to stand up and be counted for Christ; to offer effective convictional witness to the Lord; to shape our society in the light of the Gospel and our faith in the Lord who saves.

• Why wouldn’t we want to embrace the teachings of the only person who has ever risen from the dead?
• The only one who can grant forgiveness of sins?
• The only one who promised us the authentic way to find peace on earth and the road to a life beyond the grave?

The God of heaven and earth has a plan for the redemption of the world.

• Will you not reach out to clasp his hand and welcome the opportunity “to do something” in response to the graciousness of the Creator of all that is?
• Or have you chosen the path of insincerity?

Spiritually, speaking out of both sides of our mouths has never helped anyone. Turn to Christ and follow him anew.

Father Michael W. Davis
Pastor