
Las tormentas de la vida
Monday, August 1, 2011
*Marta Vargas
Cuando tocamos el tema de tormentas y huracanes, el chiste entre mis amistades es que mi “plan de preparación contra-tormentas” es sencillamente tener el tanque de mi auto lleno de gasolina y salir “disparada” manejando al lugar más lejos posible en la dirección opuesta (algo que no es nada nuevo para aquellos de ustedes que me conocen).
Aunque la última tormenta que llegó a mi ciudad me tomó tan desprevenida que no tuve la oportunidad de irme a la costa opuesta de la Florida (y de paso ver a mi familia y a tantos buenos amigos), mi oración entonces fue -- y sigue siendo -- que Dios me otorgue la gracia para aprovechar y no desperdiciar las oportunidades para reflexión que las tormentas y el mal tiempo nos ofrecen.
Pues mientras los desastres naturales a menudo traen con ellos retos y sufrimientos muy reales y serios para quienes las viven, a la vez hay momentos en nuestras vidas cuando las tormentas son más personales, son batallas internas por las que atravesamos a nivel personal -- en otras palabras, “las tormentas de la vida”-- que también conllevan serios sufrimientos y retos.
Lo maravilloso de todo esto es como estas “tormentas de la vida” poseen el potencial para transformarse en momentos de increíble gracia divina, seguidas por los arco iris más brillantes que jamás pudiéramos haber visto después de cualquier tormenta o desastre natural.
Una vez, mientras leía una Biblia, me llamó la atención uno de los comentarios donde decía que cuando Jesús aparecía ejerciendo su poder sobre los vientos y el mar, los primeros Cristianos lo veían como “un signo, un símbolo, de la presencia salvadora de Jesús en medio de las persecuciones.” !Que imagen más bella! De igual forma, las “tormentas de la vida” pueden ser oportunidades especiales para experimentar la presencia de Cristo y hacer su amor más real y tangible los unos para los otros a través de nuestro dar y recibir de ese amor durante esos tiempos difíciles.
Quizás hasta podríamos decir que son precisamente esos los momentos claves cuando Dios y la vida nos están ofreciendo una invitación especial, una oportunidad única, para ser ‘arco iris vivientes’ los unos para los otros.
Verdaderamente, las “tormentas” no se limitan a lo que oímos en los informes del tiempo o presenciamos en la naturaleza, y sus manifestaciones pueden tomar tantas formas como hay personas en esta tierra. La buena nueva es que es muy probable que hayan tantas o más manifestaciones de gracia divina para transcender estas tormentas, y que esta gracia nos llega a través de las manos y pies de Cristo en la tierra: los seres que nos encontramos en el camino justo cuando los necesitamos, tal como si nos hubieran sido enviados por Dios mismo. Al brindarnos apoyo y esperanza estas personas se convierten en signos, vívidos recordatorios, de que Dios vive y su amor es real, porque lo vimos en carne propia, en cada intercambio de amor, caridad y esperanza.
¿Puedes pensar en una “tormenta de la vida” a través de la cual sentiste la presencia de Dios guiándote y acompañándote de manera especial, y el rol que tuvieron otras personas en ello? ¿Cómo fortaleció esta experiencia tu fe y te dio fuerza para seguir adelante y hasta poder transcender otras tormentas en el futuro? ¿Y, tan o más importante, cómo te ayudó la experiencia a desarrollar una mayor sensibilidad a las necesidades y experiencias de otros, de forma que tu pudieras servir de acompañante y ayuda a otros después?
¡Anticipo con entusiasmo poder escuchar esas historias!
Comments from readers
Thank you O, thank you everyone! Keep up being hope and light to each other, with God's grace and help... until next time... :)
And , Teresa, great food for thought and reflection that I intend to take to Mass with me today: "Lord, how can we be your hands and feet today? Show us! Open our hearts to see you in those you place in our path to bless in your name especially those who may be enduring a 'life storm'. Also Lord, help us to see you in those who come our way to bless us today and through our own storms. And may you grant us the grace to realize before judging that we don't always know what storms someone may be going through, and the wisdom to be light and hope, truth and love, to everyone, especially those who may need You most in ways that truly heal and transform, at all times, for the glory of your name. Amen!
Great stuff everyone, keep it up!! :)
Just popping in to say thanks again because your sharing has been such a blessing from your special insights to beautiful scripture readings to your experiences that bring it all together... not just to me but it sounds like many of your fellow readers. And isn't that what it's all about? What a special blessing to be seeing and experiencing the very point of the blog, the principle at work, in this forum.
Isnt it neat how there are so many ways to be His hands and feet to one another in the very sharing of our stories of hope, and how this process need not be limited to our geographic locations but in fact transcends time and space, thanks to the wonders of our modern technology! In fact, by the way, Greetings from Tampa Florida (and just so you know I didnt fill up my gas tank drive here to the opposite coast because of Tropical Storm Emily but to celebrate a family birthday even if the timing with the blog couldnt have been better, our good Lord does have a wonderful sense of humor!!)
And, Oh Linda, what a beautiful testimony in how in the selflessly transcending your own pain to reach out to help others in ministry next thing new blessings and hope came right back, and such a great reminder and point of reflection for us all It's like John said "God has a plan for our lives, we just don't know it until it happens. " and by simply trusting Him through those storms and allowing His grace to guide us, forgetting not (or perhaps allowing that very process to remind us) that there are others around us suffering as much and sometimes more asking ourselves what can we do to make the load lighter to them forgetting our own cares for that time, our load ends up becoming lighter and amazing things happen, sometimes in wonderfully surprising ways, and then that is passed on... as the circle of hope continues on... Praise Him!
Keep up the great work and sharing everyone! here's to many more stories of hope, not just today in our last day of cyber sharing but way beyond! God bless you all!!! :)
I was at work and received a phone call from Kathy, a friend of my brother Ralph, who lives in California. My brother has played a very important role in my life. He has been "my superhero" all of my life. We have always had a special bond. This phone call shook me to core of my being. I was hearing this voice speaking to me that I had just recently met, so my first reaction was that she was in Florida on business and wanted to meet for dinner. After trying to guess why she was calling me she finally just interrupted me and told me to please be quite for a moment for she had some news for me about my brother Ralph. I was so confused, what kind of news could she have. I had just visited my brother in San Francisco 2 months prior and my Mom had told me she had spoken to him 4 days prior and all was fine. The news was, that my brother was suppose to tell me on my visit, but couldn't bring himself to do was that he had been HIV Positive for the past 10 years and now he had brain lesions and had 1 week to live.
Needless to say that news took the wind out of my sails. All I could do is say, Oh why God, why? She then said, he wants you to break the news to your 3 other siblings and your Mom...Oh dear Lord...how do I tell a parent her child is dying. Death was no stranger to my Mom, she was a two time widower but to lose a child seems so imaginable. Lord give me the strength, the courage and the words. With the help of my other brother, Jeff, we went to her apartment to tell her to pack because we were going to California. Ralph needed us there and we must be strong for him. No tears just strength. Strength is my Mom's middle name and if there is anything that our Mom has taught us, is to be survivors.
The next day we were all by his side and like always Ralph was running the show, even through all his pain and failing body. After a week by his side, I had to give up my position of feeder and groomer. He told me it was time for me to go home and take care of my kids since he was not going anywhere. He asked our brother Jeff who is a paramedic/firefighter to stay with him for a month to help him recuperate. To our Mom he told her to go back home and finish planning for her wedding because funeral planning is over. He was not going anywhere, there was to much living yet to be had.
All I can say is thank you my Lord for such a miracle. You showed us that prayers are heard, even from those that are at a snail pace of a faith walk. Today I look at my brother with such awe because he has truly continued to live life to the fullest even with his disabilities and God continues to perform miracles in his life. After coming into relationship with Jesus, I understand now why He allows us to go through the storms, because He loves us wants to shape and form us.
I was very fortunate to end up living near St. Max Church in Pembroke Pines. Through this church I was able to become part of a wonderful community � we made friends, became very active in the religious education program and participated in various ministries. Our lives were enhanced more than I could have ever imagined. My sons thrived and are both doing great today and I met a wonderful man through working in a ministry. We were married a year ago in July.
None of this would have been possible without the help of God and His gentle guidance
In Psalm 119:75, we read "I know, O LORD, that your laws are righteous, and in faithfulness you have afflicted me."
In Romans 8:28, we read "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
Praise be to God for He is good and His mercy endures forever. "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:38-39.
Thank you Marta for this inspiring post that will surely stay with me a while. Always enjoy reading everything you write! God bless you!
God Bless.
GRACIAS mil por sus comentarios en lo que ya ha comenzado a ser una maravillosa conversaci�n!
Diana, what an amazing story, and during these times, one that no doubt is important to share that truly attests to the endless possibilities that exist when we open our eyes to see God's hand in all things and open our hearts to receive what He has in store even when (and especially when) it seems toughest. In fact, I want to share your story at other opportunities /talks if you dont mind what an inspiration!
Let's keep up the conversation this is getting good!! :)
ESPANOL!!!
Jaime, que buen e importante punto de reflexi�n. Verdaderamente, estos momentos poseen gran potencial para crecer no solo en fortaleza sino en virtud para bendici�n tanto nuestra como la de todos con quienes compartimos la jornada!
Doris, me encant� eso que dijistes de como "a traves de las diferentes vivencias y viviendo "la tormenta" a la luz del Espiritu Santo" eventualmente nos damos cuenta "que a "nuestra ALMA ni la toca el viento" y podremos ser bendicion y consuelo para otros que lo necesiten. " , y visto as�, no se puede evitar estar agradecido a nuestro buen Se�or hasta por esas mismas tormentas, permitidas como todo para bien . Cierto, muy cierto
Sigamos conversando que esto se est� poniendo bueno!
Bendiciones!
A couple of years ago, I had a storm pass my way in life that surely, turned into a hurricane. Only exception is that the eye of the storm with the sunshine and calm, did not come in the middle of the storm but came at the very end - and stayed that way. Despite me thinking that my storm was the loss of my career after 15 years, it turned out to be my rainbow. You see - because of that hurricane, I was able to fulfill a life long dream - to finally finish my Bachelor's degree which I had never had time for due to my career. But my blessings did not stop there - because of that hurricane put in my way, I met the man of my dreams, am planning a wedding and in a couple of months, I will complete my Master's Degree! I am so thankful for the "storm" that came my way - because the rebuilding after it has been one of the most amazing times and gifts in my life and the rainbow after the storm is still shining bright today! It can be scary going through the storm - just like it is scary going through bad weather. But just like the rainbow after a bad weather storm, it indeed does always come out if one believes and lets God do what he has plans to do. I only wish I had the power to hold everyone's hand as they are going through the storm - so that they hang on and enjoy the rainbow after. Believe - one of my most powerful words in life. Keep smiling!