No hay vacaciones para nuestras vocaciones
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
*Father Luis A. Rivero
�El verano ya est� aqu�! Los d�as son m�s largos, las noches m�s cortas, la temperatura aumenta y aparecen las lluvias vespertinas. Es la �poca del a�o en que disfrutamos los d�as bajo el sol en la playa o en la piscina. La barbacoa se usa un poco m�s, y las velas para espantar mosquitos est�n en venta especial. Si tienen ni�os, quiz�s piensan en actividades para mantenerlos entretenidos.
En fin, los relajados d�as del verano ya est�n aqu� y, seamos francos: �verdad que a veces buscamos c�mo pasar el tiempo y descuidamos lo que es importante? No s� si les sucede lo mismo, pero yo siempre lucho durante las primeras semanas del descanso veraniego, porque la rutina o la estructura se altera. Al principio parece algo maravilloso pero, seg�n pasan los d�as, aparece una inquietud, la sensaci�n de que �algo� falta.
La falta de una estructura externa pone a prueba mi compromiso interior. Cuando no tengo que levantarme temprano para la oraci�n de la ma�ana con la comunidad, o tengo la opci�n de ir a la misa diaria en la ma�ana o en la tarde, no tengo un momento espec�fico del d�a para mi meditaci�n o conversaci�n diaria con Cristo. Entonces, viene la pregunta: ��Soy fiel?�
Durante este per�odo de vacaciones se pone a prueba nuestro libre albedr�o. Si ustedes son como yo, habr�an buscado en el pasado alguna raz�n para evitar la misa dominical con el fin de ir a almorzar o cenar con alg�n amigo o familiar que quiz�s no hab�an visto desde el verano anterior. Podemos olvidar con facilidad lo que es importante, y que la asistencia a la misa dominical, en cualquier parte del mundo que nos encontremos, es esencial para nuestra relaci�n con Cristo.
En d�as recientes, algunas de mis amistades hablaban sobre su �stay-cation�. Les pregunt� a qu� se refer�an, y explicaron que aunque no estuvieran trabajando, permanec�an en su hogar en vez de salir de vacaciones, debido a la situaci�n econ�mica. �Me pareci� divertid�simo! Sin embargo, me brind� elementos para comprender c�mo podemos ver este tiempo de descanso de las estructuras externas, sea el trabajo, la escuela, el seminario o el ministerio. Debemos permanecer fieles a nuestra vocaci�n. Debemos recibir este tiempo, ya sea en el hogar o lejos del mismo, como un momento para quedarnos, una oportunidad para una �stay-cation�.
El hecho es que nuestra vocaci�n � como matrimonio, persona soltera, religiosa o religioso consagrado, di�cono, sacerdote u obispo ordenado � no es algo de lo que podemos escapar. No podemos permanecer conectados a Cristo y estar de vacaciones en nuestra vocaci�n. No podemos huir del llamado del Se�or en nuestras vidas. Por eso, siguiendo el entendimiento de mis amigos, este tiempo en que los d�as son m�s largos, las noches se vuelven m�s cortas, la temperatura aumenta y las lloviznas riegan la tierra, representan un buen momento para examinar nuestras conciencias y profundizar en nuestra vocaci�n, para que permanezca en un estado de �stay-cation�.
Por eso me pregunto, y les pregunto a ustedes: �C�mo podemos permanecer conectados a Cristo cuando la falta de una estructura externa lo hace dif�cil? �C�mo podemos permanecer en una �stay-cation� a la luz de nuestra vocaci�n?
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Di�cono Luis A. Rivero
Seminarista, Di�cono Transitorio, Seminario Regional St. Vincent de Paul, Boynton Beach

Comments from readers
I can remain connected to Christ because He's present, here and now. Here, in my room, while I'm watching the storm and listening the thunders. Now, in this moment of solitude and wonder. He's present in the mystery of the union of the Christian community. He's present in the faces of my friends... like Luis.
For this reason every circumstance is a grace (even a boring meeting in NY): because reality is Christ who is looking for me.
Stanton:
I look forward to the return come August. I hope you too are able to get some rest so that in August we can get to work on all the things we have spoken of.
Vero:
Is the one whom has coined the phrase "stay-cation." Thank you for the insight and know of my prayers for the upcoming celebration!
Erik:
Center and balance are the key ingredients for a man of integrity, thank you for your witness throughout these years that!
Jose Pedro:
Indeed the position of the humble beggar is that which we must imitate. Know of my prayers during this time!
Br. Richard:
Absolutely! In remaining fixed to reality and growing deeper in our humanity we have the opportunity to grow. Thank you for the insight!
Christina:
Thank you for your words and personal witness.
Estrellita:
Thank You!
Fr. Roberto:
Returning to the basics, essential to grow more aware of our humanity, as you say "inviting us to re-accept in our lives." Thank you for your "Yes!" and the wonderful job you have been doing in the Vocations Office. Know of my prayers as we begin the Year of the Priesthood.
Angie:
Thank you for the reminder but also I would offer you the same wishes and hope and pray that you too embark on this work that each one of us has to do individually and with a community.
Dan:
Keep It UP!!! May your summer be blessed and remain focused on Him who has called us all by name!
Thanks for the reminder and the challenge. I pray that we both remain faithful to our calls and continue to heed the Lord�s promptings. Have a great summer as you continue to prepare for priestly ordination.
Dan
I'd have to quote what others have commented in this blog, it is a good reflection that reminds us "...not to waste the opportunity that the summer brings us. Hopefully, it won't be just a time of "staying", but a chance to improve."- R. Demaria.
Good luck on understanding and grasping the concept of this so called "stay-cation" :p
As stated, it's very hard for many to do....
-Angie C.
The idea of the "staycation" is very much in line with returning to basics which the economic situation is inviting us to re-accept in our lives.
God bless you,
Fr. Roberto
The lack of external structure is definitely a challenge, yet we are called as Catholics to take that which the external structure is trying to provide: Love of God- in mind, body and spirit and internalize it-exercise it, if you will, on our own.
When it comes to sunday mass-missing it or not- I am at fault too! I ask myself: "Don't you desperately need God?" The answer for me is -of course! That makes me not to miss sunday mass even if I am tired or busy-or simply do not "feel-like" going. Yet we all know deep down that the peace we receive is great! And any day that goes by without receiving...Our Daily Bread...as the Our Father puts it...YOU are missing out!
As far as the rest of our time, it is important during this time that we actually take care of ourselves- physically and mentally and rest- reading good books that may bring us to Christ, exercising, spending time with family and friends-exuding the christian joy we are called to have, praising God at all times! Always in gratefulness and in awe of nature His masterpiece. Also, I say try smiling at your neighbor (often) and doing little good deeds for others. The rest that He wants you to do -He will reveal- day by day ! Just be alert!
Have a wonderful staycation in the vocation during this summer of '09!
Your message comes at just the right moment, reminding us not to waste the opportunity that the summer brings us. Hopefully, it won't be just a time of "staying", but a chance to improve. During vacation, there is more time for us to be really present to those whom we meet and to avoid the tendency to rush past someone because we think we have something more important to do. I pray taht I will use the days away from work well during these coming months. Richard