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¡El verano ya está aquí! Los días son más largos, las noches más cortas, la temperatura aumenta y aparecen las lluvias vespertinas. Es la época del año en que disfrutamos los días bajo el sol en la playa o en la piscina. La barbacoa se usa un poco más, y las velas para espantar mosquitos están en venta especial. Si tienen niños, quizás piensan en actividades para mantenerlos entretenidos.


En fin, los relajados días del verano ya están aquí y, seamos francos: ¿verdad que a veces buscamos cómo pasar el tiempo y descuidamos lo que es importante? No sé si les sucede lo mismo, pero yo siempre lucho durante las primeras semanas del descanso veraniego, porque la rutina o la estructura se altera. Al principio parece algo maravilloso pero, según pasan los días, aparece una inquietud, la sensación de que “algo” falta.


La falta de una estructura externa pone a prueba mi compromiso interior. Cuando no tengo que levantarme temprano para la oración de la mañana con la comunidad, o tengo la opción de ir a la misa diaria en la mañana o en la tarde, no tengo un momento específico del día para mi meditación o conversación diaria con Cristo. Entonces, viene la pregunta: “¿Soy fiel?”


Durante este período de vacaciones se pone a prueba nuestro libre albedrío. Si ustedes son como yo, habrían buscado en el pasado alguna razón para evitar la misa dominical con el fin de ir a almorzar o cenar con algún amigo o familiar que quizás no habían visto desde el verano anterior. Podemos olvidar con facilidad lo que es importante, y que la asistencia a la misa dominical, en cualquier parte del mundo que nos encontremos, es esencial para nuestra relación con Cristo.


En días recientes, algunas de mis amistades hablaban sobre su “stay-cation”. Les pregunté a qué se referían, y explicaron que aunque no estuvieran trabajando, permanecían en su hogar en vez de salir de vacaciones, debido a la situación económica. ¡Me pareció divertidísimo! Sin embargo, me brindó elementos para comprender cómo podemos ver este tiempo de descanso de las estructuras externas, sea el trabajo, la escuela, el seminario o el ministerio. Debemos permanecer fieles a nuestra vocación. Debemos recibir este tiempo, ya sea en el hogar o lejos del mismo, como un momento para quedarnos, una oportunidad para una “stay-cation”.


El hecho es que nuestra vocación — como matrimonio, persona soltera, religiosa o religioso consagrado, diácono, sacerdote u obispo ordenado — no es algo de lo que podemos escapar. No podemos permanecer conectados a Cristo y estar de vacaciones en nuestra vocación. No podemos huir del llamado del Señor en nuestras vidas. Por eso, siguiendo el entendimiento de mis amigos, este tiempo en que los días son más largos, las noches se vuelven más cortas, la temperatura aumenta y las lloviznas riegan la tierra, representan un buen momento para examinar nuestras conciencias y profundizar en nuestra vocación, para que permanezca en un estado de “stay-cation”.


Por eso me pregunto, y les pregunto a ustedes: ¿Cómo podemos permanecer conectados a Cristo cuando la falta de una estructura externa lo hace difícil? ¿Cómo podemos permanecer en una “stay-cation” a la luz de nuestra vocación?



 


Diácono Luis A. Rivero
Seminarista, Diácono Transitorio, Seminario Regional St. Vincent de Paul, Boynton Beach

Comments from readers

Enrico Grugnetti - 06/19/2009 03:17 PM
Miami, 3pm: it's raining... a lot. It reminds me of you.
I can remain connected to Christ because He's present, here and now. Here, in my room, while I'm watching the storm and listening the thunders. Now, in this moment of solitude and wonder. He's present in the mystery of the union of the Christian community. He's present in the faces of my friends... like Luis.
For this reason every circumstance is a grace (even a boring meeting in NY): because reality is Christ who is looking for me.
Deacon Luis Rivero - 06/19/2009 09:39 AM
Thank you one and all for taking the time to read the blog and post comments...

Stanton:
I look forward to the return come August. I hope you too are able to get some rest so that in August we can get to work on all the things we have spoken of.

Vero:
Is the one whom has coined the phrase "stay-cation." Thank you for the insight and know of my prayers for the upcoming celebration!

Erik:
Center and balance are the key ingredients for a man of integrity, thank you for your witness throughout these years that!

Jose Pedro:
Indeed the position of the humble beggar is that which we must imitate. Know of my prayers during this time!

Br. Richard:
Absolutely! In remaining fixed to reality and growing deeper in our humanity we have the opportunity to grow. Thank you for the insight!

Christina:
Thank you for your words and personal witness.

Estrellita:
Thank You!

Fr. Roberto:
Returning to the basics, essential to grow more aware of our humanity, as you say "inviting us to re-accept in our lives." Thank you for your "Yes!" and the wonderful job you have been doing in the Vocations Office. Know of my prayers as we begin the Year of the Priesthood.

Angie:
Thank you for the reminder but also I would offer you the same wishes and hope and pray that you too embark on this work that each one of us has to do individually and with a community.

Dan:
Keep It UP!!! May your summer be blessed and remain focused on Him who has called us all by name!
Dan Fiora - 06/18/2009 12:37 AM
Deacon Luis,
Thanks for the reminder and the challenge. I pray that we both remain faithful to our calls and continue to heed the Lord�s promptings. Have a great summer as you continue to prepare for priestly ordination.
Dan
Angie C. - 06/17/2009 08:38 PM
Hello D. Luis,

I'd have to quote what others have commented in this blog, it is a good reflection that reminds us "...not to waste the opportunity that the summer brings us. Hopefully, it won't be just a time of "staying", but a chance to improve."- R. Demaria.

Good luck on understanding and grasping the concept of this so called "stay-cation" :p

As stated, it's very hard for many to do....

-Angie C.
Fr. Roberto Garza - 06/17/2009 04:38 PM
Deacon Luis,

The idea of the "staycation" is very much in line with returning to basics which the economic situation is inviting us to re-accept in our lives.

God bless you,
Fr. Roberto
Estrellita - 06/17/2009 04:29 PM
Great message!!
Cristina Baldor - 06/17/2009 01:14 PM
Deacon Luis,
The lack of external structure is definitely a challenge, yet we are called as Catholics to take that which the external structure is trying to provide: Love of God- in mind, body and spirit and internalize it-exercise it, if you will, on our own.

When it comes to sunday mass-missing it or not- I am at fault too! I ask myself: "Don't you desperately need God?" The answer for me is -of course! That makes me not to miss sunday mass even if I am tired or busy-or simply do not "feel-like" going. Yet we all know deep down that the peace we receive is great! And any day that goes by without receiving...Our Daily Bread...as the Our Father puts it...YOU are missing out!
As far as the rest of our time, it is important during this time that we actually take care of ourselves- physically and mentally and rest- reading good books that may bring us to Christ, exercising, spending time with family and friends-exuding the christian joy we are called to have, praising God at all times! Always in gratefulness and in awe of nature His masterpiece. Also, I say try smiling at your neighbor (often) and doing little good deeds for others. The rest that He wants you to do -He will reveal- day by day ! Just be alert!

Have a wonderful staycation in the vocation during this summer of '09!
Richard DeMaria - 06/17/2009 08:23 AM
Luis:
Your message comes at just the right moment, reminding us not to waste the opportunity that the summer brings us. Hopefully, it won't be just a time of "staying", but a chance to improve. During vacation, there is more time for us to be really present to those whom we meet and to avoid the tendency to rush past someone because we think we have something more important to do. I pray taht I will use the days away from work well during these coming months. Richard
Jose Pedro Redondo - 06/16/2009 01:22 AM
Luis, thank you for enlightening us once again, about remaining with the Lord regardless of the season. The many of us who don't have the long summers of the students or the teachers are not as greatly affected, as our structures tend to remain the same year round. But the key, it seems to me, is to most humbly and most insistently ask for the Grace of continuously contemplating His blessed Face. To request the Grace to abide in Him with the humility of the beggar and the unrelenting hope of he who knows himself to be the beloved son. I do so most imperfectly, but He has planted in our hearts the desire to seek Him. May we all have a blessed Summer.
Erik Vieira - 06/15/2009 03:20 PM
Great reflection to help us stay centered and balanced during these summer days.
Veronica Carrillo - 06/15/2009 01:15 PM
Wise words my friend, i like the "stay-cation". -Vero
Stanton Cadow - 06/15/2009 11:01 AM
Wonderful thoughts Luis. we are looking forward to your return to the seminary in August. Have a great summer.

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