Anyone who knows me is aware that I dress strategically. My color of attire almost always has meaning, even if it is only that black slacks are slimming.

Our Senior Director of Human Resources asks each day what my outfit represents. Some are obvious, like red or pink for Valentine's Day, green on St. Patrick's Day, and, of course, red, white, and blue on Election Day and the three summer holidays. I even dress liturgically.

Feast days of Mary? I'm wearing blue. Pentecost Sunday? I'm in red. Advent and Lent? I'm donning purple. And don't get me started on my sports teams.

When the Florida Panthers are in the Stanley Cup playoffs, I'm in red or blue, depending, of course, on the opponents' colors.

I can't risk accidentally sending mixed signals. Sport superstitions are real, people! I have, on more than one occasion, blamed our Maintenance Technician/Everyone's Best Friend (yes, that is his official title) for losses because he did not dress appropriately! Just kidding — mostly.

So, when my colleague, Anthony Pittelli, wrote his most recent blog on the FIFA World Cup coming to Hard Rock Stadium — renamed Miami Stadium this month — I'm sure you thought my main focus would be on dressing in team-appropriate colors. Yes and no. I will be dressed appropriately in a black T-shirt embossed with the words, "Defend the Children."

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As Anthony pointed out, these mega-events also attract predators who view them as prime opportunities for their crimes of exploitation. The research is mixed as to whether victimization actually increases during these events or whether there is simply a "flashlight effect," which means the fluctuation in numbers is documented in arrest records and hotline calls, but there is no significant increase in victimization.

It may be semantics, but read that sentence again carefully because it does not mean these crimes of exploitation are not happening. It means they absolutely are happening and are ever-present!

The process of recruiting a victim into human trafficking begins by creating a relationship through stages of grooming. This takes time. Recruitment doesn't necessarily happen during these events. However, the recruits are made available during the scheduled timeline of the events.

The worldwide sports spectacle and the intense media coverage it attracts provide the spotlight needed to gain resources for community awareness campaigns, increased policing, well-publicized hotline numbers, and response programs. As intended, these types of programs increase the number of victim disclosures and reported crimes.

Either way, this debate doesn't have sides. Both arguments lead to the same conclusion: This needs to be addressed at all times.

Recently, the Florida Department of Law Enforcement held a press conference reassuring residents and visitors while also warning traffickers that FDLE has a "zero-tolerance" policy for human trafficking.

The agency has expanded its task force and is conducting undercover sting operations to target both buyers and traffickers. These ongoing efforts have significantly increased arrests and convictions of child predators and traffickers.

And that is a GOOOOOOAL!

But not the game. Bringing awareness to adults and increasing law enforcement efforts is paramount. Additionally, this conversation needs to take place with children as well. Age-appropriately, of course. But it is never too early or too often. This conversation should happen often.

Now is a great time to start, as the excitement, energy, and fan frenzy of the World Cup could distract kids into letting their guard down. Talk about safe vs. unsafe touches, identify safe adults, encourage them to trust their instincts, discuss online safety, and define grooming and coercion, with an emphasis on boundaries and respect.

This isn't a "scared straight" conversation. Rather, it is a boundary and safety program. It is the basis for the Virtus Teaching Boundary Safety lessons taught to students in our parochial schools and catechism programs.

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Reinforcing these lessons at home is an opportunity to practice your faith.

In the Catechism of the Catholic Church, it says:

"Freedom is exercised in relationships between human beings. Every human person, created in the image of God, has the natural right to be recognized as a free and responsible being. All owe to each other this duty of respect."

So, after regulation time, stoppage time, overtime, and shootouts, respecting the game and each other — no matter whose jersey you wear or what color vuvuzela you blare — is a win!

You can report suspected human trafficking directly to law enforcement in Florida by calling 855-FLA-SAFE or the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888.

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Comments from readers

Eileen D=H - 06/19/2026 03:15 PM
Once again, Jan, you SCORED! Thanks for all the reminders and mentioning the programs we have in place to protect kids. Your advice to re-visit these topics frequently is merited. Our Safe Environment lessons can't just be "one and done" annually. Reminders are important so the lessons are ingrained in both children and their safe adults. Thanks again to you and the entire SE team.
Jean Voltaire - 06/19/2026 11:52 AM
what a great message, that is wonderful thank you
Ivette Habach - 06/19/2026 10:45 AM
Jan, thank you for your article! It is creative, informative, and relevant, as always.
Melanie Takinen - 06/18/2026 12:45 PM
What a beautiful message Jan! While large events can certainly highlight the need to be vigilant to protect children, it's certainly not limited to just that. Safe adults must be vigilant at all times! Thank you for sharing these words of wisdom, and for all that you do to protect children within the community!
Ralph Rayburn - 06/18/2026 09:26 AM
Good to know that even if the Referee misses a Foul it will not Happen on Your Watch. Great Work...Again.
Susana Yllanes - 06/18/2026 08:58 AM
Thank you, Jan, for this inspiring and important message. It reminds us that protecting children is not only the responsibility of law enforcement or educators, but of every member of our community. As parents, grandparents, educators, and people of faith, we all have a role in safeguarding the dignity and safety of every child. By staying vigilant, having open conversations, and teaching children about healthy boundaries, we reflect Christ's love and care for the most vulnerable. May God bless and protect all our children and give us the wisdom and courage to always be their advocates. Great article.
Sister Lidia Valli - 06/17/2026 04:07 PM
Dear Jan, kudos on your article. You write with such humor, clarity, and energy that you draw us in and move us to reflect. Thank you for encouraging all of us to stay informed, to educate ourselves, and to act with purpose. May our Lord keep us vigilant and steadfast in His light.
Anthony Pittelli - 06/17/2026 02:34 PM
Never any stoppage time for our work, Jan! You're among the Messi's of Protecting God's Children! Cheers!
Kimberley Eichholtz - 06/17/2026 01:30 PM
Thank you, Jan for keeping our awareness at the forefront.
Alex Martin - 06/17/2026 10:42 AM
Great read Jan!!! Thank you for everything you do and keep us informed! Remain peaceful!
Christy McTear - 06/17/2026 10:30 AM
I appreciate how you connect an everyday topic (something as simple as choosing what to wear) with a much more important conversation about protecting children. Your reminder that human trafficking and exploitation are ongoing issues, rather than problems limited to major events like the World Cup, is especially impactful. An important takeaway is that it is everyone's responsibility to build a culture where children feel safe speaking up and adults know the warning signs. Bulding this culture is one of the strongest tools we have for preventing exploitation and protecting our vulnerable youth. Oh and Go Panthers! :)
Mildred Ratcliffe - 06/17/2026 09:56 AM
Jan, thank you for this wonderful and thoughtful reminder. It is indeed paramount that we keep our children within our sight and supervision at all times. In a moment, we can become distracted—whether children or adults, even while cheering for a goal or enjoying an event. We must continue to educate and gently remind our children about these possibilities, while praying that such situations never occur. Vigilance, awareness, and prayer remain essential in protecting our children and all who are vulnerable.
Dolores Alea - 06/17/2026 09:40 AM
Excellent article to help us remember how important it is to stay aware and to also help children remember to stay aware. Guiding and protecting children is the goal no matter if it's a simple family event at home or a national event in a large stadium.
Angel magnum - 06/17/2026 09:17 AM
Jan, I love your shirt! “Defend Our Children” is a powerful statement on its own. As the Local VIRTUS Coordinator at Saint Matthew Catholic Parish, I am grateful not only to read this very informative article, but also to share it with others. May God continue to protect our children, and may this World Cup season be safe, enjoyable, and uplifting for everyone. God bless!
Bryan Jones - 06/17/2026 09:05 AM
Great read, Jan. Stay vigilant, everyone, and continue to speak up.
Maren Martinez - 06/17/2026 09:02 AM
Dear Jan, Great article... how funny and smartly you use the FIFA World Cup event to get your message across. I am also a strategic and liturgical dresser! I just got some sneakers with black, red and golden (yellow) stripes, can you guess which team is my favorite? Going to wear them next Saturday at 4 pm! May the best team win the trophy - with skill, fairness, good sportsmanship and prayer (some German players gathered with their opponents from Curacao for a prayer after the game... very impressive because that you do not see often over there!).
Carmen MatosRaia - 06/17/2026 07:59 AM
Great reminder! We all have to be aware that this happens no matter if it is a regular time of any games or with social media. God Bless,
Sr. María Elizabeth Borobia - 06/16/2026 03:18 PM
Jan, thank you very much for your blog post, and for helping us all be increasingly aware and appropriately vigilant. Prayers for a fun and safe enjoyment of the World Cup.

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