By Lizsandra Trastoy - Florida Catholic Newspaper
MIAMI| "Death is not the end of human life but a door into eternal life." Archbishop Thomas Wenski emphasized these words in his homily for this year’s Catholic Hospice Memorial Mass, held at St. Hugh Church.
About 200 families came on June 20 to the Mass, held annually for families to gain closure, as it honors and remembers those who have passed away in the last year.
"When you lose someone, there is the idea of being able to say goodbye -- to know they are in the hands of God, and that you have reassurance in your faith," said said Bonnie Alkema, executive director for Catholic Hospice. "I think this Mass is important because we all need to say, ‘I miss you, I’m still here, and I know that there is eternal life and we will one day meet again.’"
Archbishop Wenski’s homily emphasized not only the significance of the services provided by Catholic Hospice, but also the importance of grieving for a loved one. "We grieve and we must do so -- for grieving is the pain of letting go," he said.
Before the Mass, Catholic Hospice staff members greeted families and gave every person a dove ornament with the words "peace, hope, joy" carved in them. The gifts are meant to convey three reassurances, said Maylen Montoto, director of community development for Catholic Hospice.
First, "We want families to understand that their loved ones are now at peace," Montoto said. The message of hope is "in order for them to be reunited one day with their loved ones," she continued.
"The last message is joy, because we need to continue life in joy."
Ricardo Pol, director of professional services at Catholic Hospice, said the annual Mass is good for staffers, too.
"This is a great opportunity for our staff members to re-join and reunite with the families they have helped, and hopefully come and deliver peace to them," said.
Zuzel Echevarria, a parishioner from St. Kevin Church in Miami, expressed gratitude toward Catholic Hospice in helping her husband, who died Dec. 8.
"I was happy to see how his last moments were so peaceful and comfortable, as he received great medical attention," said Echevarria. "There were staff members spiritually guiding us at all times.
"It was important for my husband to receive this guidance, as I am sure he is now in a good place," Echevarria added. "I am thankful to God that we found Catholic Hospice and are part of this Mass."
Following the Mass, Alkema and Montoto thanked families for their trust in Catholic Charities. "From our staff of physicians, nurses, social workers, chaplains, and volunteers, I would like to thank you for allowing us into your lives," said Alkema.
The memorial Mass began 27 years ago and is celebrated at different times throughout the year, in both Broward and Miami-Dade counties.